10/24/12

What’s All This About Birthstones?

      I have often wondered about birthstones, as they appear to be arbitrarily chosen and changed ever so often. While browsing the web I came across some interesting information that I retrieved from www.wikipedia.com that indicated the use of birthstones for many centuries, and is connected to the Gregorian Calendar.  As was not surprising, the use of birthstones is tied to myth and lore, yet I wanted to share some of what I found as it includes poetry. I have had 3 different birthstones since I was born as they keep changing. Enjoy!!!

 

 

Birthstone Chart Many Decades Ago

 

 Picture Credits: bloggers.com

 

Traditional Birthstones

 

Ancient traditional birthstones are society-based birthstones. The table below contains many stones which are popular choices, often reflecting Polish tradition.[10]

 

The Gregorian calendar has poems matching each month with its birthstone. These are traditional stones of English-speaking societies. Tiffany & Co. published these poems “of unknown author” for the first time in a pamphlet in 1870.[11]

 

 

 

By her who in this month (January) is born

No gem save garnets should be worn;

They will ensure her constancy,

True friendship, and fidelity.

 

The February-born shall find
Sincerity and peace of mind,
Freedom from passion and from care,
If they an amethyst will wear.

 

Who in this world of ours their eyes
In March first open shall be wise,
In days of peril firm and brave,
And wear a bloodstone to their grave.

 

She who from April dates her years,
Diamonds shall wear, lest bitter tears
For vain repentance flow; this stone,
Emblem of innocence, is known.

 

Who first beholds the light of day
In spring’s sweet flowery month of May
And wears an emerald all her life
Shall be a loved and happy wife.

 

Who comes with summer to this earth,
And owes to June her hour of birth,
With ring of agate on her hand
Can health, wealth, and long life command.

 

 

The glowing ruby shall adorn,
Those who in July are born;
Then they’ll be exempt and free
From love’s doubts and anxiety.

 

Wear a sardonyx or for thee,
No conjugal felicity;
The August-born without this stone,
`Tis said, must live unloved and lone.

 

A maiden born when September leaves
Are rustling in September’s breeze,
A sapphire on her brow should bind
`Twill cure diseases of the mind.

 

October’s child is born for woe,
And life’s vicissitudes must know,
But lay an opal on her breast,
And hope will lull those woes to rest.

 

Who first comes to this world below
With drear November’s fog and snow,
Should prize the topaz‘s amber hue,
Emblem of friends and lovers true.

 

If cold December gave you birth,
The month of snow and ice and mirth,
Place on your hand a turquoise blue;
Success will bless whate’er you do.

—Gregorian Birthstone Poems

 

 

 Modern Birthstones

 

 

In 1912, in an effort to standardize birthstones, the (American) National Association of Jewelers met in Kansas and officially adopted a list.[12] The Jewelry Industry Council of America updated the list in 1952[13] by adding alexandrite to June and citrine to November; specifying pink tourmaline for October; replacing December’s lapis with zircon; and switching the primary/alternate gems in March. The most recent change occurred in October of 2002, with the addition of tanzanite as a December birthstone.[14][15] Britain’s National Association of Goldsmiths created their own standardized list of birthstones in 1937.[16]

 

 

Birthstones by Cultures

 

Month

15th- 20th century[18]

U.S. (1912)[19]

U.S. (2012)[20]

Britain (2012)[21]

Hindu[22]

January

garnet

garnet

garnet

garnet

serpent stone

February

amethyst, hyacinth, pearl

amethyst

amethyst

amethyst

chandrakanta

March

bloodstone, jasper

bloodstone, aquamarine

aquamarine, bloodstone

aquamarine, bloodstone

Gold Siva-linga

April

diamond, sapphire

diamond

diamond

diamond, rock crystal

diamond

May

emerald, agate

emerald

emerald

emerald, chrysoprase

emerald

June

cat’s eye, turquoise, agate

pearl, moonstone

pearl, moonstone, alexandrite

pearl, moonstone

pearl

July

turquoise, onyx

ruby

ruby

ruby, cornelian

sapphire

August

sardonyx, carnelian, moonstone, topaz

sardonyx, peridot

peridot

peridot, sardonyx

ruby

September

chrysolite

sapphire

sapphire

sapphire, lapis lazuli

zircon

October

opal, aquamarine

opal, tourmaline

opal, tourmaline

opal

coral

November

topaz, pearl

topaz

topaz, citrine

topaz, citrine

cat’s-eye

December

bloodstone, ruby

turquoise, lapis lazuli

turquoise, zircon, tanzanite

tanzanite, turquoise

topaz

 

 

Birthday (Day of the Week) Stones

 

 

While this word has also been used as synonym of Birth stone (see above), there is a separate list of assignment according to the day of the week of the recipient’s birth:[25]

 

 See also

 

 External links

 

 

 

 Charlene’s Source: Retrieved from “http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Birthstones&oldid=519382567

 

 

 

10/12/12

The Prospect of Empty Nesting by Chaelwest

I have never anticipated the prospect of having an empty nest. You could call it denial or call it a desire to keep my children close and safe, but I have coasted along for many years not realizing how hard it would be to release my children to adulthood and thus to the world out there.

 

My daughters are well-trained. They are moral, productive citizens, and I am so proud of their accomplishments and abilities. We have always worked together as a team–their father and I as a minister of music and of the Word; they as musicians and sound technicians.

 

Over the years, there has been so much concentration on work that I missed the fact that my girls were also needing to find their own persons to love. After all, family love is one thing, but espousal love is something entirely different.

 

I truly believe that my girls will desire a man of integrity and honor; one who treats them well and respects them as persons. I would want this to be reciprocal because both parties in a union must respect and honor one another. I would encourage them to look for nothing less in the person they choose.

 

This is simply thought and the desires of my heart for them both. I pray that GOD will honor these desires. Nevertheless, I am aware that their choices are just that–their choices. I cannot choose for them, I don’t believe in arranged marriages, but what I can do is pray–fervently and unceasingly. I can trust in a GOD who has never failed me and in whose hands I will place my children. The thought of not having them asleep in my home is over-whelming and will become reality some day, but I pray for sons who will understand my mother’s heart and allow them to return to my bosom when they need to relate, and who will desire to relate also. I pray for beautiful grandchildren who will reflect the core values of their parents and grandparents.

 

Am I dreaming an impossible dream? No, I don’t think so. Life has proven that this is possible. Whatever the choices that my daughters make, whomever they choose to love and care for, their Dad and I will bless them and pray for them as my parents blessed and prayed for me and my choices so many years ago.

 

Credit: chaelwest

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10/1/12

[Trans] 121001 Yoochun – VJ Ken Wu Weibo Update

 

[Trans] 121001 Yoochun – VJ Ken Wu Weibo Update

 

(Omitted) There will also be news report on Park Yoochun’s visit to Taiwan. I took this photo with him right after he got off the stage and he’s already in his beloved slippers. Do watch today’s ‘I Love JK’!

credit: VJ Ken Wu Weibo
trans by: rachui@sharingyoochun

Charlene’s Source: sharingyoochun.net

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